contemplations of a dad, husband and entrepreneur
23 Jun
If you’ve read this blog over the years, no doubt that you’ve shared the highs and low of the process that Kristy and I have gone through to start our family. After six infertility treatments (five artificial insemination and one round of IVF), two miscarriages and a whirlwind of emotions, last year on July 17, Savannah Grace was celebrated in ridiculous fashion as she made her way into the world. Needless to say, we were one of the lucky ones to have had our girl after going through so much.
You might be wondering why we had to go through all of those procedures? We were too. I’m not talking about why God made us go through all of that, rather what was going on with either of our bodies to purpose us with this process. While we never figured it out, we had always concluded that our future attempts would take the same road.
We were wrong.
March 2008, we found out that we were pregnant. Much to our surprise, we headed to the doctor to confirm what five, yes 1-2-3-4-5 pregnancy sticks had already told us. It was true, but so were the signs of miscarriage. Days later we lost our third baby.
Normally, this would have devastated us but something remarkable had happened; we got pregnant on our own. That’s never, repeat NEVER, happened before. We hesitated to claim our healing, our miracle, but we did. Remarkably, the joy of the miracle cast a shadow on our grief.
The very next month, it happened. Pregnant again!
As of today, we’re rounding the bend towards 11 weeks. The baby is healthy and growing.
Over the past five years, we celebrated, laughed, cried, been angry, demanded answers, agreed to disagree with God, and wondered if we’d ever be a family. Today, we’re a family of three with another on the way.
Miracles do happen.
5 Responses for "Miracles do happen"
Kyle, that is incredible. Of course I haven’t known you through all of that, but I am very encouraged to hear your story and am celebrating with you. Wow!
@Grant - Thanks for sharing our joy!
I am so excited for all of you- must say that when I first heard I was somewhat amazed then wondered why when I know God can and will do anything to surprise us. WHAT AN AWESOME GOD. BLESSINGS AND LOVE TO ALL OF YOU.
just found your blog via Facebook! Congrats on the impending arrival - we also went through a year of initial infertility, followed by two miracles - then another 3 years of “nothing…” I’m so thrilled for you - and it sounds like your sweet family is doing well…
Yippee! Can’t wait to see what Chowning #2 looks like!
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