contemplations of a dad, husband and entrepreneur
4 Aug
Once I found out that I was going to be a dad, it seemed that parents couldn’t resist the urge to tell me how I would draw spiritual principles from watching my child grow up. I have to admit, I really liked the idea.
Over the past year, I’ve watched Savannah grow and have found myself intentionally looking for lessons to be learned. I’d like to offer dozens of insights gleaned throughout the past year, but I have nothing…until now.
Recently, I rolled a small ball to Savannah’s lap. She promptly scooped it up, held it tightly, looked at me and gave me a squishy face smile that would cause anybody to laugh out loud in response. She loved the ball, she loved the game, she loved that moment. I looked at Kristy and said, “what would life be like if we had the joy of a child.” And there it was.
It’s been weeks since then. I can’t seem to get away from it. It chases me, haunts me and tempts me to look at things differently…but I can’t; at least not yet. Best I can tell, to be that joyful requires me to see the best in everything and everybody. If I am honest, I’ve created quite a concrete perspective in looking at things critically. That’s my gift…at least I thought. Today, I learned that it’s not my gift…it’s my pride. No wonder I don’t see things like a child. Rather than looking at the fullness that life has to offer, I choose to focus on the improvements that life could bring. Where’s the joy in that?
I want, nothing more, than move beyond the criticism and into the fullness of joy. It just seems more fun.
What about you?
7 Responses for "Like a child"
Her joy and faith challenges mine as well. We may not get as excited about a ball coming our way, but we are definitely learning lessons alongside her.
My greatest teachers to date are 4 years old and 6 months old. I can look at Elijah getting taller and smarter and say ‘hasn’t he grown?’ and then I realize, he’s not the only one.
This is so true! On the return leg of a business trip heading back to Orlando I observed two kids who were so excited to be going to see “the mouse” that they were jumping up and down while still in the airport (not even on the plane yet). I commented to my boss who was traveling with me “What in our lives makes us have that kind of joy?”
this is a great reminder….thank you for sharing!!!
Lots of lessons in that “squishy face smile” It wasn’t just the ball. It was also that full on, face to face connection with the one she loves…that knowing that you were “there” for her! You’re a great daddy to my little granddaughter…THANKS!
I know exactly what you mean about being haunted and chased by those moments. I have a growing collection of mental photographs that I can’t (and don’t want to) escape from. James’s first kiss to mommy, his first deliberate smile to me, his sheer joy on the swing in Joel’s yard, his excited yelps yesterday while playing in the water at my mom’s house. From all that I keep thinking - all these genuine joys are small compared to everything God has stored up for us to experience for all eternity. When I think of that, I start to get the same silly (and infectious) grin he gets….
@Kristy - isn’t this the most fun thing you/we’ve ever done!
@Lloyd - I can’t imagine the lessons that I’ll learn by the time that Savannah is 4. Please share!
@Dale - Total gut check. Just think…you got a double portion
@Kelli - thanks for commenting!
@Sharry - what! there’s more to be learned. Please share.
@Jim - it’s really unbelievable. this thing that we seek (joy) is ready in it’s fullness. I think I’m currently tapping into about 20% of it. How about you?
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