Good things come to those who wait

kristyandiDear single guy/girl,

I know. Looking and waiting for the right spouse is hard. The temptation to go out with a lot of guys/girls in hopes of finding the right one is high. Nobody likes to be lonely.

Whatever path you decide to take, let me encourage you in this one thing: he/she is out there, you just have to wait for him/her.

My wife and I dated for six weeks, were engaged for just over five and went from introductions to marriage in 10 months all because we waited for the right one to come along. When he/she comes, you’ll know it. Trust me, you’ll just know.

Not everybody will walk our path—it is an accelerated one—but it is my hope that you share in the joy of waiting.

I’ve been given a gift in Kristy Kitchell Chowning. You too, will be given the gift when you wait and find the right spouse—not a perfect spouse because that person doesn’t exist. 

Wait for him/her. I promise, it’ll be better than you could ever imagine.


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  • Rob Sperti

    You and Kristy are both incredible gifts in our lives. Through your discipline and patience in waiting for the right one, our family has been incredibly blessed. I’m grateful for you both and so grateful for the example of your marriage!

    • Kyle Chowning

      Thanks for your encouragement and support over the years Rob! I count dear friends like you as gain in this life. :)


    Kyle and Kristy,

    thanks so much. These words are exactly what I needed today.
    I’ve been single for a long time now, I’ve even made money of it buy writing about dating on my former blog and I am writing a book on all the funny stories that occur when you’re still single and trying to find that special one.
    I stopped looking and being impatient a while ago but sometimes, on days like today,
    trusting that it will happen one day is a little harder then usual.

    Thanks for the encouraging words,
    it’s great to see that you know how truly blessed you are for finding the one and sharing your life with them.

    Good luck and cheers to all the great times still to come to the two of you!